Stoke Poges Men's Group

Time set aside for men to encourage and be encouraged.

A big welcome from the Stoke Poges Men’s Group.  If you have not been to one of our events, then please read on to find out what you are missing!  During the year we run curry nights, dinners, Saturday morning breakfasts, activity evenings (skittles etc.) and visits to interesting venues.  There is something for everyone!  We are not an exclusive group but very inclusive and guys from a wide area (not just from Stoke Poges) come along to our events.  We are open to everyone – guys of all faiths and none are always given a very warm welcome.

At some of our events we invite a special guest who will give a talk on a specific topic, and during their talk they will usually share something of their Christian faith and how it has guided and influenced them during their lives.

Our group is affiliated to a UK organisation called Christian Vision for Men who run an annual conference for men and support men’s groups throughout the UK.

Ascot Brewery - Saturday 18th September 2021

With the lifting of Covid-19 restrictions in July, we will once again be able to start running events where we can meet together physically rather than virtually! The first of these events is a visit to Ascot Brewery on Saturday 18th September. Most breweries have been impacted by the pandemic, so why not join us for this visit and help us give one of them a boost! We have selected a brewery that the men’s group have not visited before, the Ascot Brewery, located in Camberley ( Last year, due to their continued success, the brewery transferred to just round the corner into much larger premises (8,500 sq ft). This enabled them to produce a far wider range including a stout and a lager, in all upwards of 20 different varieties. Our visit will begin with a conducted tour where we will be given an overview of the entire brewing process with opportunities to sample various ales. Following the tour we will go to the bar or weather permitting outside, where food will be provided and an opportunity to purchase some more draught ales as well as cans or bottles to take home! Transport will be provided and we will leave St. Andrew’s car park (in Rogers Lane, Stoke Poges, SL2 4LN) around 3pm and expect to return no later than 8pm. Price £25 includes tour, food and transport. 

NOTE: Please book early as this helps when organising transport. Contact details below.
Also, if you would like an alternative to pizza, let Tony or Nigel know.

Men’s Dinner - Friday 19th November 2021

After all the restrictions of the past couple of years, we are really looking forward to our annual Men’s Dinner on Friday 19th November. Our venue is the Oak Room at the South Buckinghamshire Golf Club (in Park Road, Stoke Poges). Our meal, which is buffet style, will begin at 8pm and will cater for a wide range of tastes. Our speaker is Paul Cowley MBE, a guy who has been a thief, prisoner, soldier and priest! He grew up as an only child with parents who were alcoholics, then at the age of 15 he was expelled from school, at 16, he left home, and at 17, entered a life of crime which landed him behind bars. When he came out he found salvation in the Army. In 16 years he rose to Staff Sergeant, did three tours in Northern Ireland, one in the Falklands and fought on the Army boxing team. After leaving he became a fitness trainer and ended up running one of London's top fitness clubs.

A few things began to happen that made him start thinking about God.  “I was an atheist. I was very angry at God, but I didn’t know him. I hated Christians, but I didn’t know any. I detested church, but I hadn’t really been to one”. In 1994, he was persuaded to do an Alpha course and his life was turned around. Paul began attending a church in Central London, Holy Trinity Brompton (HTB) where he was soon invited to be a volunteer on prison visits. He put forward a proposal to the church leaders to have the Alpha course implemented in the prison system and today it runs in 800 prisons worldwide. In 2002, he was ordained and was appointed pastor of HTB Queen’s Gate. In 2005, he founded Caring for Ex-Offenders, a charity which connects individuals with church communities in the area in which they are settling. Today, he is an ambassador for social transformation at HTB and Alpha International, an advisor to the British government on issues related to prisoners and social justice, and an advisor to the Bishop of London on prison and penal affairs. Last year, he published his autobiography entitled “Thief Prisoner Soldier Priest”. We are delighted that Paul will be able to join us for this Men’s Dinner and following his talk, we will have a question and answer session. The evening should finish at approximately 10:30pm.

We would be delighted if you could join us at one or both of the above events. If you would like more information or wish to book your place, contact Tony or Nigel:

Tony Shortman:   01844-350014   or email: tony-mavis[at]

Nigel Lowe:   07973-349721   or email: nigelatsuchlowe[at]

Facebook:   If you’d like to join us on Facebook here is the link to our group.


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